Do you ever have days when you wonder why you are on this earth...??
I feel lonely today well to be honest I feel lonely everyday...Everysince we moved to Frisco I haven't felt like I fit it... 5 years we have lived here
They have great schools so we stay but there is something about the people I have met..
Very disconnected no feeling of warmth or community.
I don't have friends really..I try to make friends I just don't get it...People are nice to your face and say lets do this and that but its all hot air...
They just go into there houses and you never see them...
Maybe its because I don't have family here.
Well I have my sister but she doesn't speak to me...She is mad but she is mad a lot so not much I can do about it...
I try to stay in contact with family...
Sometimes my heart is just sad that we don't live closer...
Maybe I'm just whinney today who knows..
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It's okay to feel lonely once and awhile, it's natural. I am one of those people that hide out in my house though. I don't want to go anywhere and I hate small talk with people. Uggghhh. But, then again, I am from New England and they say we are "cold" people. I thought Texans were all so friendly and nice!? Guess I was wrong huh? Hang in there!
Hugs and love,
Lisa
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this is how I often feel when my depression hits...so lonely!
Becky
I wish I could give you a hug. If it is any comfort, you have lots of friends here in J land.
Terra
You know, Donna, I've written recently about my great neighbors, but there was a time when I didn't know anyone living here, and I, like you questioned if this was a good fit. We lived here for nearly 5 years before we came to know the people around us. Now, after almost 25 years, many changes have taken place that bring people closer: births, deaths, marriages, neighbors move out, new ones move in, snow storms that brought us together for days of sledding, and hurricanes that made us pitch in to help each other claim back our yards from fallen trees. Maybe you haven't had those kinds of opportunities, celebrations and tragedies, that bind folk together. If this is where you think you should be, just give it more time. Often, we find our friends in our time of need... maybe someone just needs you to come visit them first. As for sisters, I think sometimes we expect too much from each other. Mine lives in Georgia. Take care, Donna... tomorrow is another day. Look for a change, or make one! :-) Bea
i always give christmas goodies to the neighbors and in the summer if i make jelly and jams i take a jar to them its a great way to get to know your neighbors just a thought
Deb
So sorry to hear you are having a blue, down day! Pick a couple and force yourself on them. LOL No, seriously.......choose someone that might interest you and start something. Invite them over or invite them out. And remember that WE love you!! - BArbara
I feel like that quite a bit -- but it's all my fault. I'm not comfortable around people and have chosen to build that little secure wall around me. I let a few people in....but they eventually have to leave and go back to their own lives.
I'm going to take your challenge of admitting TEN weird habits...AND double it. Twenty!
Feel better, gorgeous lady! I love ya!!
Russ
I know how you feel about family. I wish I were closer to mine too.
I hope your feeling better.
Ellen
Yeah i wonder sometimes to why we're here and if it's worth it...sometimes....but i know it's worth it i'm not close with my family and they are many states apart from me, but fortunately i do have a 'few' friends ....i hope you are feelin better soon hang in there!~kbear
Its hard when you dont have friends..I know the feleing all too well...I have TWO friends since the last 4 months..and WOW I tell I feel so lucky..lol..I didnt have a friend around for a LONG time her either..so I know the lonely feeling..(((HUGS)))
Awwwww, I know how you feel. I recently have moved FROM Ca to Idaho. I havn't made many friends outside of work. Lucky for me my mom lives here. But I have gotten "lets do this or that.." too. It never seems to happen. I have never had problems making friends before, so why now? I don't really see it as a problem though mostly. Maybe I put it out there that I am to busy? Anyway, Frisco is a large busy place, but on the upside there is LOTS to do. Where I live, there is nothing!!! Good luck and Happy New Year!
Stephanie
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I've had my share of down days lately, too. I wish we could get together over a cup of hot tea....thank you for all your sweet words after my hysterectomy..
I understand how you feel. I do feel so lonely sometimes. I can count my friends in this town on one hand, actually I don't even need that 1 hand.
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