Last night l laid down with Zachary our 8 year old..........
Me: scoot over bed hog
Zach: Momma?
Me: What baby?
Zach: do you have suxcs with daddy?
Me: suks ????what are you saying I don't understand that word
<ok I knew but I was trying to play dump in case he really didn't know what he was saying lol>
Zach: <clears> talking timidly> Do you have sex with daddy?
I'm thinking:<ok the color is out of face and my mind is racing what to say what to say>
Me: Yes I do have sex with daddy why do you ask?
Zach: Oh .....ok you have sex with daddy because yall are in love right?
Me: Yes baby when two people are married and in love they have sex...
<he!! he!! had to throw in the married part...>
Zach: OK
Then he starts talking on a different subject about some kids in his class like no biggie
Damn I was sweating it...
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You dodged a close one there, lol.
Chris
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SHEWWWWWW..you did good!! lol...And yes I ALWAYS throw the married part in..even if you are giving BIG OL kisses..lol...(what we call tongue ones..lol) AHHA...Im evil though..I even tell Lelsie if kids her age kiss, they could go to jail.>LMAO Hey whatever works, right?..LOL..(((HUGS)))
Just after your husband offers to get goofy....your son starts questioning you. :)
My 12 yr. old has been on this subject lately and I think it's time we have a good long talk with him....or his dad needs to have the talk. LOL
Michele
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You handled that well. As long as you you are open with him he will feel comfortable to ask you anything instead of getting into trouble finding out on his own. ~ Mike
Can I give my 2cents on this???? It is obvious he is a bit curious about...something....may be he saw or heard something. Without pushing it too much, have your hubby talk to him some, dig a little deeper...you never know...of course ALWAYS keeping the lines of communication open and comfy. Loris
yeah I probly would have had a heart attack...Austin embarrasses very easily so he wouldnt have said the word...lol
Kelly
'married and in love they have sex'
those three words together in the same sentence? Only in America..... oh unless you forgot the 'don't'
Tee-hee
LOL it's wonderful that your son feels comfortable enough with you to ask this question!! You were honest and open to discussion and that means so much to him, I'm sure. I call it a "special hug" with my younger daughter...it worked well with her sister until it was her time to really understand. Now it's no holes barred!!
Michelle
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